This is Melinda, a friend since 1983, the same year I met Jay.  In fact, her and Jay were married for quite some time.  The little girl in the pic is her daughter Makayla, taken about 2001.  Below are some small pics of the other kids, Krystal (16), Chauntel (10), and Quintin (5).  The older two are Jay and Melinda's, the others are Ed's kids (both Melinda's ex husbands).  Krystal is now 23 (and is now Mrs. Felt) and Chauntel is 17 and has recently moved into her own apartment.